I did a bad thing.
I bought too many new clothes.
I was in desperate need of some new attire and found myself with a little extra cash. So, with Summer well underway, I decided to go ahead and spend a little money. Needless to say, I was a wee bit over-zealous.
I’ve gotten in this habit recently of saving my new purchases for a few days before using/wearing them, so that if I experience buyer’s remorse, I can just take them right back to the store. No harm, no foul.
Thankfully, I did the same thing this time–minus a couple of items that I knew I would keep. I returned around 5 of the articles of clothing.
I’ve been really trying to only buy things that fit into my current life and aren’t just physical manifestations of–what miss minimalist calls–my fantasy self. I realized that a few of my recent purchases were just that. They were items that I simply found cute or pretty; things I would have loved to see myself wearing, but knew that they would just end up getting shoved to the back of my closet.
It felt good to return them. And responsible, I might add.
Also, in the not-so-very-distant past, my boyfriend happened to win a drawing for a $1,000 gift card to a massive shoe store where we live. Yes, you read that correctly. This is a minimalist’s dream come true as well as worse nightmare.
See, I would finally be able to spend more money than I normally would when I needed a decent new pair of kicks, without my frugal self feeling guilty over the purchase.
That also meant I would have more of a tendency to go on random shoe-shopping sprees, throwing caution to the wind, because–since it wasn’t my money–I had no reason to feel guilty for my many unnecessary purchases. And I have to add, when it’s not my money, I have a much harder time deciding if I really need the item or not.
I fell into the trap a couple of times; which, thankfully, the purchases I made were actually shoes that I am wearing a lot of these days. However, there was one pair in particular I spent far too much money on that I ended up returning because I just realized, after I got them home, that they just weren’t a pair I really needed or would probably ever even wear frequently. Thank you, buyer’s remorse!
Just a little confession from a budding minimalist today, in hopes that I can help someone else not make the same mistakes by reading about mine.
And I do encourage you all to hold on to your new purchases for a bit before removing those tags. Sometimes you just don’t think you’ll become so quickly detached from an item you just couldn’t live without only moments before.
Also, attempt not trying things on or picking things up that you don’t already have in the forefront of your mind as things you are seeking. Those stylish mannequins and perfectly lit fitting rooms are just ploys to snatch your attention, causing you to fall for things you might have otherwise never even thought about.
Good luck, minimalist shoppers!
And may the force to refuse and purge be with you!
(Note: Upon bringing home my new purchases, I went through my wardrobe and was able to pick a couple of shopping bags full of items to donate or sell. Can’t bring something in without tossing something out!)
Have you ever made an impulse buy that led to regret and a set-back in your progress towards minimalism?